hello i am 20(F) and i i’ve been seeing a guy who is 20(M). We have been seeing each other since one and a half months.
He’s a very quiet guy and nonchalant as well but he is also very calm and really chill. I have met him plenty of times. I have stayed over at his place. We have been to each other’s place. I have met a lot of his friends. Everyone knows that like we are seeing each other, I guess. we have the hottest chemistry I have ever come across. Like we have insane chemistry. I think that is how it works in these kind of situations.
but the main problem is that we don’t text at all like at all. We just talk once a day about what we are doing or how our day was or send each other a reel. We don’t really talk about emotions, we eat, play games, sleep together etc basically a relationship but without the label. which is perfect, because even I’m not looking for anything commitment related right now.
A little more conversation will be appreciated but I really don’t know how to address that. I feel like it should come to him naturally, but I’m sure he’s not the kind of guy who will talk as much.
I don’t want to go out of my way to tell him how he should feel, but is there any subtle way of carrying this situation the other way?
tldr: I have been seeing someone since one and a half months, and I don’t know what they want emotionally as we never talk about it. How do I make an emotionally unavailable man open up? (dw i know how these situations work but i couldn’t care less)