i already know how dumb i’m about to sound but i don’t care, i need ladvice. so, i (18f) met this guy (18m) 2-3 months ago in class, both in our first year of uni, and it was like a meet cute. we talked after class, started snapping, then talking, then hanging out more, got his number, kept talking and hanging after class and studying together. i personally think we are incredibly compatible. he’s intelligent and we have a lot of the same traits and sense of humor but also we’re just different enough to compliment each other personally. almost two weeks ago we admitted to liking each other, had our first kiss about a week after. we both admitted that we’ve never dated before, which i think plays a big part in this. we’ve had dinner with my mother, met my friends, blah blah blah. then this past weekend we had a few drinks and lowkey made out a bit, which was definitely fun, and he was honestly a little bit handsy, which i Did not mind at all, i would speak up if i did, but i’m also just a little bit concerned that maybe we’re moving too fast. i know he likes me, but my concern is that he only likes kissing and touching and wants to have all these firsts instead of actually liking me for ME. the thing is that im able to realize these as concerns, but im also really enjoying myself, and the more i think the more i worry ive begun to self sabotage, which i have a SERIOUS problem of doing. i guess i need advice on if we’re actually moving too fast or if im just freaking myself out over nothing. i’ve never done any of this before, and im definitely a bit mental, so i guess i just need an outside perspective. i do want to continue moving forward with him, i definitely don’t want to have sex quite yet but i definitely enjoy myself with him and id like to continue to see where our relationship goes, but i also want to be aware of anything that could turn this sour and how i should move forward.