So I (28F) started hanging out with a guy (34M) I met through mutual friends about 6 weeks ago. We had an amazing connection, but kept it friendly (except some flirting) all 6 times (long and intense meetings) we met, my attraction grew for him during this time but I liked the lack of pressure from meeting in a friendly way and exploring organically. It was about a 50/50 split in terms of initiating plans, maybe slightly more from my side.
Then the end of the 6th time he kissed me, and I was glad we waited that long. It was cute and natural and he said how happy he was to have met me. I returned the feeling.
One thing I noticed is he doesnt seem to be a planner, at all, more a go with the flow type. He asked me to meet last minute a few days after we kissed, but it didn’t work out from his side and then I got sick. Then both of us were very busy the next 5 days (although I would have been up to fit in even a brief coffee since he was going away) before he had to go on a week long work trip that he just returned from a few days ago.
Nothing is in the diary. Yet he enthusiastically talks to me most days. I don’t want to be the one to initiate right now, as I’m trying to understand if he’s interested or not. He talks like he is, our connection is wonderful, but without the action of seeing eachother in person I’m left uncertain and tbh quite anxious since we haven’t met since we kissed now almost 3 weeks ago. Anyone has any advice?