My (28f) husband (27m) came home very depressed tonight (not like him at all) as he says he feels like a failure and like he will never amount to anything. Feels like a nobody. When I have asked him to clarify, he states that he feel that he will never make more money and truly be a provider. He also states that he wants to buy us a home and not have me work anymore but is struggling to do so.
I tried to lift up his spirits and tell him all the wonderful things he already does but he won't listen and has just been crying tonight and has been anxious. I am truly scared about his mental health.
What can I do to support him at this time? He is an amazing husband and I truly wish he could see that.
Tl;dr
My (28f) husband (27m) feels like he will never amount to anything and I don't know how to support him better