So my boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years and we’re moving in together in a week.
Tonight I was going to see if he was free to hang out and watch a movie and he wasn’t responding. So I checked his location, we live a couple blocks away from each other and it’s normal for us to pop by and say hi unannounced.
But he’s not home, he’s at a strip club and it’s been hours since I sent the text and he hasn’t gotten back to me.
I honestly don’t mind if he goes, I would just like to know. He’s a super caring great boyfriend and I trust him and I want to let him have autonomy over his life and what he wants to do but I’ve been cheated on multiple times in the past and the lack of communication rubs me the wrong way.
I feel weird for being annoyed by this when it’s probably nothing, it just doesn’t feel awesome like he’s choosing to tell me after the fact rather than giving me a little heads up because I don’t know why he’s there or who he’s with. It could be something as harmless as a friends birthday or guys night but he could also be alone and I don’t know that.