Hi, I'm John, 20 years old. I have a topic that's really bothering me and I'd like to hear your opinion on: I've noticed that almost every woman my age (between 20 and 25) I meet or approach is already taken. We often exchange Instagram messages, get along great, have a lot in common, and then it turns out she has a boyfriend. I used to be extremely shy and nervous; approaching women was practically impossible for me. Only recently have I found the courage to actively approach people. But now I've even stopped approaching women because I find it kind of weird—we don't even know each other, and I don't want to bother or annoy anyone. Now I'm wondering: Am I just too late? Are there hardly any single women my age who are suitable for me? Or have I just not found the right way to meet new people yet?
I'd be really interested to know what you think is the best place to meet women these days if you're not always going out partying or meeting someone by chance in everyday life?
Best regards, John