I’m part of a group in an activity, with a lot of guys and girls. There are some people I get along with, but with others, I feel a certain distance (not me but them). In the group, there’s a guy who came before me last year, and regularly hosts parties.
I’d like to join those parties in the wknds and socialize! But i have the feeling that he don't want to invite me and i don't want to force it ((Like he was inviting that new girl in the grp, and when i arrived by coincidence next to them, he changed topic))
We have normal cool interactions but he never invited me!
The thing is, many people in the group already knew him before I joined, but there are new ones that he invited lately also.
What to do now?
Do i simply start orgnizing parties myself ((even it will take time to build a new group)) and invite others without inviting him ?