I recently joined a new community and I’m trying to figure out how to find the right middle ground between keeping to myself and getting to know people.

I’m naturally private, but I don’t want to come across as cold or uninterested. On the other hand, I also value boundaries and don’t want to overextend myself.

For those who’ve had to integrate into new groups, what helps you show friendliness without opening yourself up to unwanted involvement?

I’d appreciate any practical tips or examples that worked for you.


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