My ex (25f) broke up with me (30m) pretty out the blue 5 weeks ago, citing there were differences between us she couldn’t accept (we’re from different countries / cultures / backgrounds but this was always our strength in showing each other different things)
Since then I’ve tried to keep distance but ending up going to see her once which was mutually agreed. We’ve not been speaking every day or even every week but the few times we have talked we stay on the phone for hours and everytime she’s mentioned how she misses me / wants to see me.
Here’s where it get gets abit crazy and complicated after a 5 hour phone call last night i found out my suspicions were true and her parents threatened to stop paying her rent if she carried on seeing me, telling her that she shouldn’t be with me, alongside that they had been constantly questioning her why she was with me and telling her we are to different to be together and filling her head full of thoughts that made her doubt and not trust me all. Her mother is emotionally abusive, manipulative and controlling and has screamed at me, at her daughters multiple times and at her husband and son in law all infront of me. She has complete control over my ex to the point where my she has to contact her every day and tell her what she is doing at all times.
I’ve zero hope of us being together right now because I’ve not got the ability to financial support her if her parents won’t and also think she is to brainwashed by her parents to think that we could be together. Despite this she told me everyday she crys and questions if she made the right description, also that she doesn’t want to spend time with anyone but me and doesn’t want to be with anyone but me. I love this girl so much and want to save her from this situation not for myself but for her.
Do I break contact and go see her to explain to her all of this and try make her realise her mother is abusive and is controlling her life to see if she will get help/therapy?