I’m in a performance group of about 30 people (ages 20–40, males and females), and I love performing there. It’s the only place in my town that offers advanced performances, so I can’t just switch schools. I’ve been there for 2 years.
The problem is that every time someone has a get-together, birthday, or event, I’m the only one not invited. Everyone in the group seems to be excluding me from private Facebook invites.
I feel hurt and embarrassed, and it’s making it hard to go to class. I don’t want to stop performing, but facing this group knowing they all seem to dislike me is really difficult.
Should I talk to my teacher about this, even though she’s always at those events and can see I’m not included?
EDIT – I am friendly with most and talk quite often in class. I had a fallout with 2 females about a year ago and they are very close to the others. I noticed a change since. I would hate to think 30 people are no longer inviting me because of 2 females, which always attend.
TL;DR: I’m being consistently excluded from a performance group I love. How do I cope or what can i do?