I am currently in highschool i have a friend group who i like a lot. It's a big friend group.I have real friends there but there is one person who controls everyone. If he doesn't like he talks behind your back with everyone of my friendgroup where i am in. 2 weeks ago my best friend of grade 1 of highschool was the next target i just followed in said notting but there it was the controlling friend talking behind his back i said notting. all of a sudden 3 days ago my friend from grade 1 is been avoiding me I asked if something was wrong no he said. Today is see him walking with the controlling friend avoiding me saying things in my face bulling is it. taking my spot at the lunch table when i was going to get somthing. Btw what i forgot to say this isn't the first time he does this to me. The first time i was to wild and yes i have adhd but i never talked behind somebody's back and you're probably thinking he is just your new target for the next few days. Yes maybe true but with me he always does it worse. Sometimes he walks with me like he's my best friend in the world and his and the next hour/day i am his public enemy number 1. I just don't know if he even likes me or using me? do people hate. and is the "leader even somebody's friend" because he's friend with everyone in our group and people scared of him because they follow him like a puppy. What should i do and is he even a friend? Like what he thinks he thinks i just the law. With me he is nice but since a month or 2 my friend from first grade is his best friend for that time. Me and the ‘leader’ are in the same class alone he is so nice and loving to me. But when it’s lunch he ignores me and is not nice to me. yesterday my friend group were chilling together and we decides to have a little party and sleep at a friend house. Suddenly plans were cancelled and said in was on the weekend. I thought ok is good but later on their stories I saw they were having the party without me. So they just lied to me and was really sad about it and now i think i am just a backup or a floater friend. People of reddit please help me.