TL;DR I had been talking to a girl for three months through messages, but we hadn’t met in person yet. Every time I suggested meeting up, she would say she didn’t have time or couldn’t make it. A few times, we both said we liked each other and had nice conversations.

One week ago, I asked her if I was the only one who actually wanted to try building something between us. She said no, definitely not — but she feels like she’s wasting my time. She told me that right now she just doesn’t have the time to fully invest in our connection, because when she’s in something, she wants to give it her all. She said she really likes me, and that’s why she’s stepping back — so she doesn’t waste my time since she’s not ready for it right now.
Do you think this could be her real reason?


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