I (32F) decided to give dating another chance and matched with this guy. we talked about our interests, Star Wars, nerdy hobbies, how he loves gaming. I like Legos, etc. so we agree to go out for dinner. I like to dress nicely and wear makeup. I love any moment where I can dress up and feel cute (for myself) so I do my hair, I do some natural makeup and I put on a cute sweater and skirt. Maybe it was my lululemon purse that was my red flag for him too but he kept going on about gaming and what he does for work (related to gaming) and I admitted to him that while I do think it’s fun, I’m not very familiar or good at it but I’m down to learn and game more if taught. He asked what I did for fun and I said oh I like to run, gym, hiking, etc. we talk some more but once the date ended, he says he has an early day and he’ll reach out for another date. 3 days pass and I can take a hint that I’ve been ghosted until he messages me again on discord and admits that he’s not interested because “he assumed I was gonna be different and he’s looking for someone that’s actually more into gaming and things he likes and not someone so high maintenance”
Which at this point, why even message? I can take a hint when I don’t hear from you for days but ugh whatever nerdy guys that want you to prove it and test you are so annoying!