Is my bf controlling me? we started dating in January, and we got together after a now removed friend originally slept with him. It didn't start in the best terms but we would meet in secret also she was nuts. we have been dating a while now and he has always been wonderful to me, literally lovely. However recently he has said he hates ALL of my friends.
We all go to uni together and we have always classed my friends as his friends. He is the year below in uni so we sort of accepted him into our group. In the last few months he has said he hates them but with 0 valid reason and it sucks.
Beforehand he had never said that there were any problems and even lived with me and my best friend in the summer whilst he didn't have a place to live. He has been putting in subtle hints of not liking any of them and it just makes no sense.
he barely sees me as he says he's too tired or is doing uni work but when we do see each other for like 1 night a week he is very affectionate and everything seems fine until its not again. He also is not confrontational at all, so when he says I shouldn't really be having out with them because they like a drink (god forbid a uni student has a bit of fun) he says it in a sort of compliment way, like being like "you are so good with uni work and you should keep focussing on your studies" but I think I am now realising that this could be a manipulation tactic. My friends have also said that they are a bit worried about me because when im alone with them im myself and happy etc but when he's around I am muted. Im starting to realise this too. ugh it just sucks help please!!! TL;DR