Hi guys,
Need your honest opinion and advice.
How normal is it for a husband to be curious about women(celebrities, models, random stranger women) that he keeps searching one or another on Instagram and once I even found mine sending their reels to his friend telling him to check this girl out and his friend said shame on you you have a wife and to that he replied; it’s not like I’m marrying her I am just having fun.
Should I let this slide? I am really confused it’s been 10 months to our marriage. I don’t do such stuff neither do I like him doing it but even if I tell him to stop I know he will just hide.
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so what? ask for what you want. be real. if it’s a deal breaker then it’s a deal breaker
Incredibly abnormal, my fiend
You should not let this slide
If something makes you or your partner uncomfortable you need to discuss it openly. If your partner is not open to listening or changing that is an issue and likely an indication of larger problems. If they lie and continue to behave in such a way it is also an issue. The point of a healthy relationship is getting to know each other and ourselves- our boundaries, likes, dislikes as we evolve. It’s not for us to tell you what you are okay with. But this clearly bothers you and that is valid (very valid) so I hope your spouse shows the desire and ability to adapt for the sake of your happiness and your marriage. If he isn’t open to this is may be signs of deeper issues. Good luck
Being curious? Completely normal. Having a little look online? Completely normal. Sending things to his friend about them? Abnormal and disrespectful.
Discuss your boundaries with him. He should know what makes you uncomfortable.