I've been seeing this girl for about a month and she's slammed with work right now. She told me she's in the middle of a huge project deadline and might be less responsive for the next two weeks.

I want to stay on her radar without being annoying but I have no idea what that balance looks like. Do I text her every day with something light? Every few days? Wait for her to reach out first?

And what do I even say? "Hope your day is going well" feels boring. "Thinking about you" feels too heavy for how new this is. "Let me know when you're free" sounds passive.

Last week I sent her a meme related to something we talked about on our last date. She responded with "haha needed that" but nothing else. I don't know if that means keep doing that or if I'm interrupting her focus.

I like her and want to show I'm still interested but I also don't want to be that guy blowing up her phone when she clearly said she's busy. What's the right move here? How often is reasonable and what kind of messages actually land well?


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