Hey. So I’m 29M she’s 30F. We’ve been having a lovely 3 months dating. She’s really lovely.
She informed me recently that she’d want to have kids in the next 2-3 years. Said that’s just her timeline for it. She said she’s aware it’s early but that’s what she wants.
I know I want kids at some point. But I have no idea if I’ll be ready for that in 3 years. I don’t even know if I like her enough to want to go long term serious with her yet. Let alone kids.
It’s kinda freaking me out a bit. I’m not sure what I want to do. It feels premature to make a decision on this but also don’t want to waste her time?
Tl;dr new gf wants kids in 2-3 years and I’m not sure I’d be ready then