My boyfriend 25 M and I 23 F have been together for about 9 months. We’re long distance. For the past month or two, I’d say we both went through a bit of a rough patch, as we were stressed out with different factors in our lives.
One thing that makes me incredibly anxious is not knowing when we’d be in person again, and it’s been causing resentment somewhat. I try to open up about it, but he gives me hot & cold messaging about it depending on the day, saying we’d meet then saying he’s unsure. I feel like our communication has drastically changed, where he doesn’t talk to me as much, he leaves mid conversation, scrolls through whatever apps more often. He still talks about stuff we’re gonna do together, and about a future he wants with me. I don’t know what to make of it. It makes me upset, because I feel like I’m strung along. I feel like he’s not interested in me or cheating, but I don’t have any evidence for that, and of course, now my feed is full of content that is “signs that your bf is cheating, etc.” and it further spikes my anxiety. I don’t know what to do.
TL;DR: LDR communication changed and now things feel confusing between us