is it considered when a guy who’s already in a committed relationship to be consistently texting his female friend (me, F21) who’s bisexual btw (this is an important point i’ll tell u why later lol) every other day? whenever we’re together or just sitting next to each other (we’re classmates) he finds ways to be touchy, subtle touches like placing one hand on my thigh ‘accidentally’ when getting something from my table, playful punches on my shoulder, occasional headpats, shoulder rubbing etc. and i try to play it off cuz he’s the touchy type of friend, he’s touchy with our other male friends but honestly, i don’t see him being touchy with our other female friends like the way he is with me, and he gets extra touchy when it’s just two lol (but sometimes he also holds back). there was even one time we (our whole circle) were hanging out at his place, specifically his room, and i was lying on his bed. at first he was just sitting at the edge of the bed, but then asked if he could lay next to me, so i said yes cuz it was his bed after all but i never thought he would press his body that close to mine (his back against my front), and his arms would occasionally brush my thighs.
and also about the ‘consistent texting part’ one of the main topics of our conversation is the both of us openly “thirsting” over a shared female celebrity crush. like we send each other clips of said celeb crush in sexualized contexts (her dancing sensually in slow-mo with closeups of different parts of her body) and then we both openly express how we get so turned on by it lolololol. and the reason why i noted i was bisexual is because what if he sees me as “just a bro he can do this type of thing with”, cause maybe he normally does this with his other guy friends im not sure, and bc im bi he thinks it’ll be cool to do it with me too but just platonically? but it’s just kind of alarming that he’s doing it with me, a female friend, whom he knows is definitely ‘affected’ by such media/content. but the way he gets touchy with me would say otherwise? idk ughh help (and if you’re wondering, yes i am attracted to him lol, but idk if there’s attraction from his end)