I’m curious if the rules/advice are any different when dating with casual-intent beyond just ‘looking for someone I find hot’.
I understand why most women get sick of men being too sexual early on … which really incentivizes a more generic or friendly profile on most apps. -but if you’re looking for sex not someone to marry are there different signals you’d rather see? Like more overtly showing physique, stating what he can offer, or even sharing certain kinks?
There are tropes out there like that shirtless selfies are tacky, but I’ve also found interest to be a bit hypocritical given that I’m upfront about ‘short term, open to long’ while the vast majority of women who try to match with me are clearly looking for a life-partner.
I get some attention on apps but feel like I’m attracting the wrong bunch with how my profile and images look so am just wondering what women who are into casual might be more drawn toward.