This is mostly a question for the women.
I’m 25. If I go to bars or parties or clubs I’m already in a place where we don’t have something in common cause I hate clubs and I don’t like parties and I don’t drink. I go to the grocery store, I go to the gym, I go to work. I like video games and cars and hiking in the winter. Most of the things I like are solo hobbies. I can try to fake being interested in something for the sake of meeting women but honestly I don’t want to be that disingenuous.
Before anyone says it, no I don’t wanna annoy a thousand women this year that are just trying to buy eggs. No I’m not afraid of talking to them, I just see no point. Both getting 2% milk isn’t having anything in common; I have nothing to say to this person and no reason to assume we have anything in common at all.
I’ve tried classes and clubs, mostly I find myself sitting shoulder to shoulder with people around their mid to late 40’s. I know run clubs are a thing, I don’t like running at all. I know hiking groups are a thing, I don’t like hiking in big loud groups. I go hiking for the peace and quiet (hiking groups most likely for me to actually do though). Even when I try to find women by “putting myself out there” I can’t ever seem to find anyone around my age.
Dating apps are garbage. I get matches and talk to people but honestly most of the conversations give me the feeling that I’m the 12th guy they’re juggling a conversation with and I don’t like how weird and impersonal it all feels (I don’t like simultaneously talking to multiple women either, makes whatever would be a connection feel really fake).
Where have ya’ll met your partners in the past? Where do I find wifeable women?