Been single a year. Dated 5 guys. Slept with 0. Only even sexted 2. Two said “I love you!” Within 2 weeks… and well maybe it was 3 actually but anyway only 1 of them I got remotely sexual with. Like ….. be serious no you don’t love me??
Is it just loneliness?? Because even the other ones who didn’t outright say it kept wanting to be my boyfriend and move things so fast until I split with them over it
I think I’m avoidant I get icked out and question what I’m even doing with someone like this. Like it’s SO FAST I need at least a few months for that stuff. Like 2-3.
But then when I get space I start to miss them. I leave them alone but wtf
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Men will say anything to get laid
Because Winter is coming, and they need a place to live.
Oh, well 5 anecdotal experiences. Clearly, the results are in
Why generalize and label “men”?
I talked with women who said *I love you* to me in the first week itself and had me freaked out! So, let’s just agree to say “*Why do some say I love you so fast??*”
Talk is cheap, rather observe their actions.
Because most guys are completely starved of love, affection, sex, etc
Weird I get that from women and I’ve yet to say it.
It’s called love bombing. It is either due to severe insecurity or manipulation. No healthy person does this.. you can’t know someone enough to love them in two weeks.. run away from those men.. run away from anyone that does this.
You are right to run away. They don’t love you and it’s insecure behaviour. There’s just a lot of insecure people out there.
Yeah def loneliness. A lot of men are desperate af.
You’re just so rich and beautiful, men can’t help but fall in love with you. Congrats on the 1 year of no sex.
Because thats how biology of men works. Testosterone talks. The same reason is why they fight on borders and protect families and country. I mean their strength can drive them either in Tharakan or building something good for the world. But due to internet and over sexual content most of them are leading towards tharakpan.
I don’t think a lot of men even think about if they really love *you* – mostly they just love that they’re getting attention and think that’s what it is and express it as such. This has been my experience, at least.
It’s been two months with my girlfriend. And I’m building up the moment to say it haha
I feel as if the words “I love you” need to be at a perfect moment. Kind of like a proposal moment but more low key
Maybe you’re just so awesome that men fall for you quick and lose their minds. Give yourself a little credit.