I’m 20 F and I’ve had no friends since I was pregnant, I was pregnant for 5 months in which I couldn’t be with my friends anymore and they stopped talking to me, I ended up loosing the pregnancy and since then I’ve had no friends just my boyfriend, I’ve never felt so alone in my life, my boyfriend has loads of friends and I live with him and his parents, I don’t speak to anyone or go out at all and it really has taken a toll on me because everyone around me has friends but me, I was wondering if anyone had any ways of making friends, I’m really embarrassed enough to ask because everyone my age has friends and people to spend time with but me It feels like


7 comments

  1. ”i don’t speak to anyone ”
    ”i don’t go out”

    I’ll make an ironic example

    How do I stop being hungry
    I don’t cook and I don’t buy food

    Listen
    Go out of your comfort zone

    I know it sounds easy and it’s difficult but try it

    Go somewhere and talk to strangers
    You might just say hi and practice it

    Maybe for the whole first week
    Just say hi, eye contact ( learn to not care about if they answer or not)

    Then go further
    Go to places where you can talk to people
    If you don’t know where then your mission is to find it

    Just move
    Don’t say

    ”i don’t do X” but I want the X results

    Makes no Sense

  3. I don’t love going out but I love talking to people so I just keep online friends. Maybe you could just focus on those.

  5. What you can do is go do what you like to do and then you can meet other people who have the same likes.

  6. Maybe you can rekindle the friendship with your friends? They might just thinking you needed to recover.

  7. Join book clubs
    Take classes of any kind; yoga, drawing, crafting.. etc
    Go out in general and talk to people.
    And if you in school try to socialise w your peers.
    You won’t have a strong relationship until a time passes by but try to have fun!
    The true friendships doesn’t come when you seek them but when you’re actually not looking, so instead of “looking” find things you actually enjoy and spend your time doing, and if you can do it with groups then that’s amazing! As long as you make to most of your time and don’t stress about making friends, the friends will come your way.
    And i hope you find an amazing people that truly love you
    XO

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