So I’ve been trying to put myself out more lately by going out more to events such as meet ups or social gatherings of some sort. However, one thing I’ve discovered is that whenever they’re women there are guys around and it feels like a competition. how do I overcome This and become the best choice in the room relative to the other guys.
It can be quite hard as though I am in shape I’m only 5 foot six and for example in the gym there’s a lot more men who are superior to me they have better physiques, they’re they might be more charismatic, so how do I overcome this obstacle of people who always superior to me physically which the women will naturally pick them first before they pick me. This is evident at bars and clubs as I’ve gone many times but never succeeded there
Online is even worse so I don’t even try on there cause the competition beteeen the males is very fierce