Sounds so dumb and the whole issue is ludicrous to me but here we are. My bf (31M) will not leave my (27F) boobs alone no matter what I do or say to deter him. How do I get him to understand why I don’t want him touching them constantly?
I normally don’t mind when he touches them occasionally or in the bedroom setting, but it’s gotten to the point where I don’t like it even then because he can’t respect me not wanting it all the time. I’ve tried explaining that I just don’t like it or that I’m starting to feel like only a pair of tits to him.
Just last night we were watching a movie and cuddling on the couch when he started to grab on them and when I asked him not to grab them, he moved away to the other end of the couch and started complaining that I never let him touch me. Like dude just leave them alone for two seconds I have a whole body to touch not just them!
This morning he says I’m being controlling about what he can and can’t do after I tried talking to him (again!!) about not grabbing on them all the time. Controlling about you not touching my boobs?? I feel like I’m going insane.
I’m planning on maybe showing him this post after getting some advice on how to get it through to him that I’m tired of arguing about this constantly and that it’s making me not want him to touch me anywhere ever.
Obligatory he’s great in every other way? My boobs need a break and I feel that at his grown age it shouldn’t be this hard for him to understand.