I (18 yo male) had sex for the first time with my lady yesterday. To skip to the important bit, neither of us finished.
We talked about it afterwards and she said that my penis was too big and I last too long. For context, I'm working with an almost 7 inch with a lot of girth. Enough that condom fitting was really complicated.
She said that she really liked sucking me off but it stretched her out a whole lot.
When I realized she stopped moaning as much I resorted to cunnilingus but we had to stop cuz we almost got caught (it was at somewhere she volunteered).
I'm uncircumcised and I really wasn't used to the sensitivity of the bare glans so I was a bit overstimulated.
What can I do to make it more pleasurable for both of us? She has a very high libido and is very open about it so I really want her to feel fulfilled.
Apologies if I sound desperate or anything of the sort.