awhile ago, i bought a dildo with a very soft and comfortable texture and overall ive just had nothing but great experiences with it. but in the past week, ive felt this extremely uncomfortable pain in a very specific spot around my vaginal opening, and whenever i just touch it with a single finger it stings, burns, or it feels like im getting a piercing there. when it remains untouched i feel no pain; this includes sitting, wiping after peeing… but whenever i begin to use the toy and try to work my way through the pain, the uncomfortable sensation goes away until i take it out and put it back in. i always use a crap ton of lube, and i take extra care to wash my toys (and myself down there), however ive always been extremely prone to UTIs except im not experiencing any other of my telltale signs if having one. i do have an IUD that i got inserted back in december, and i havent had intercourse in over a year. my family is slightly hesitant when it comes to going to any doctor for whatever reason for financial reasons, so im asking here because i only want to get checked out if this could be a serious complication beyond a UTI