so my bf and me have always had a great sex life. for reference he’s 28M and i’m 26F. we haven’t lived together for long but due to some health issues i moved back in with my parent and he was there a ton before we moved in together. anyways, when staying with my parent, our sex life was great and very active. when we first moved in together, things slowed down but not drastically. we had a lot going on so it was just nature of the situation. now some months later down the road and our sex life has completely went down hill. it went from 2-3 times a week to 2-3 times a month. when i mentioned it to him, he says he works really late and gets home and is extremely tired. granted he is there 12-14 hours. fast forward to his schedule changing and now he works normal hours, but nothing has changed? he will say things that get me in the mood and kind of get my hopes up that we will have sex, but we end up not doing it? i feel like a complete asshole because when we don’t, i get super frustrated. i don’t ever show it because thats honestly toxic and i wouldn’t want him to do that so, i act accordingly. i’ve tried to build a deeper connection with him thinking it was that, but we get along great and he says he don’t need any improvement from me. i will say when we first got together, i was a bit skinner than i am now but not a ton of weight where my body has drastically changed. i guess im just asking, am i missing something here? is it me? maybe hes bored or outgrown me? i just need some sense of direction and really feel at a loss.