Every time my boyfriend and I (F) use lube I get these weird bumps on the outside. They are painful and are under the skin. I squeezed one onetime and some puss came out like a pimple. Was just white. Anyway this happens like 2 days after the sex where the lube was used.
I have tried water based and silicon based and both do it. Silicon doesn’t give me as many bumps but it still gives me a few. I have tried many brands.
Does anybody know why this would happen or have any tips? Sometimes I need lube and I wouldn’t like this to keep happening.