For the good-looking guys out there, I’m curious — do women ever come up to you first, or is it always on you to start things? If they do, how often does it occur?
I ask because for a lot of average-looking guys, even when we think we’re getting some kind of signal (like eye contact or a smile), it still feels risky to approach. It seems like most women don’t want to be approached unless they already find the guy attractive, and if we misread the situation, we just make them uncomfortable. I guess another question for the guys who do get approached – do you like it, is it awkward, or you don’t really care either way?