i just figured out my wife and i were miscommunicating about head.
im always asking for at least head on some occasions spicing things up if she feels sex is a bit too much, but she never accedes, but does when we are getting it on on a long night as foreplay. i brought this up and she said that she did give me bjs, which i get is technically correct, but thats not what i mean when i say i want a bj, but that its me getting to finish from it. it never clicked in her head that when i ask for head when we are either in a hurry or in the middle of the day, what i meant was literally just head and not the entire sex festivities. during foreplay i do tell her to suck me during foreplay, but at that point we both know whats happening, so, its implied its just foreplay. was i wrong to assume that in those occasions when head is being asked for, completion is implied? or was she wrong to think i was actually asking for full sex?