So I’ve been with my gf for 3 years going onto 4, and i can confidently say in the last two years we’ve had sex probably less than 15 times. And when we do she usually is totally out of it an always making excuses to do something else.
Im the type of person where i need a good sex life with my girlfriend. Its a way i feel and show love, but she just doesn’t like sex at all. Nothing turns her on that i do.
She’d rather play with herself next to me than for me to touch her. And its not that she doesn’t get horny, because she plays with herself almost every night. Just with me theres no attraction on her end. We even tried a vibrator recently, and she basically said screw me and took the vibrator home to use and we stopped the sex midway.
Ive expressed this and how i how it doesn’t feel like she loves me, and how physically touch is a big thing for me(she doesn’t even hug or kiss me, we haven’t had a proper kiss in months just pecks when i beg)she says that she is attracted to me, she just doesn’t want to have sex.
I don’t think its me being bad in bed or anything because before her I’ve never had any complaints/problems, and in the first year of our relationship we’d have sex almost every encounter and she loved it.
Ive said this numerous times and i do lover her but i don’t know if i can be with her forever like this.
Advice please