Been single a while. As in many years. Haven’t had sex in 4.5 years. I really want to have sex. Like really. But not right away, as I have experienced love bombing and false motives like many others have. I don’t want to wait months, but maybe a few dates until I’m comfortable.
There’s a man on hinge I’m attracted to and he wants to meet. Do I mention that I’m not ready for sex right away before we meet, or is it better to let it come up in conversation at the date? I don’t always understand these things and what the best thing to do is.
Partly my own fault for overthinking everything. But I would love to hear other
perspectives.