My husband of 4 years says to me tonight as we are cooking dinner "are you not going to vybz kartel concert"? I was like which concert i didn't know there was one, he said yeah there is and I said oh do you want me to go with you and he responded "cant bring sand to the beach". I asked him a few minutes later after walking away what he meant by that? I asked him why he didnt ask me to go and he said he didnt want to go with anyone just wanted to alone. That's the first thing he ever mentioned wanting to do alone and im unsure what his intentions are and very hurt by the situation. Im thinking of also going alone, to everything, forever. Am I over reacting?
My husband doesn't offer compliments or reassurance and usually makes negative remarks or is always trying to joke around usually at my expense and its getting tiring. It's making me feel very less than and I have a lot to offer.
Im just very confused, are the writings on the wall?