Question might be a little strange but bear with me.
We’re a couple in our late 20s and have been together for the majority of it. Communication about sex was never smooth but previously there was at least intimacy. Lately it seems like he has no desire for sex and with that I’m feeling like we are drifting apart. We do talk a lot, about everyday things, what happens in the world, but it starts to feel like we are moving down a rabbit hole of “what to have for dinner” and losing connection.
He was never a very vocal person in sex, but we managed it feels like there is a wall between us and what I couldnt bridge with communication before and we could just connect physically not that option is not there anymore.
I miss feeling desired and its breaking me that I cannot get through to him. He does go to therapy but is not sharing anything about those session either… I’m just lost at what is really up with him and where do we even stand.
People often jump to conclusions like you are not compatible, but I’m really hoping I can get some nice advice.