I’m 25 M, living in a big city, and have just spent the past year and some change since my breakup not really dating. It took me awhile to get over her, but since about 8-10 months ago I’ve been in a healthy mindset and over the breakup. I’ve gone on some dates with a decent about of girls in the past 10 months (with gaps as they happen just bc life) and really just not felt a spark. I’m pretty much not even looking for anything serious at this point (until it smacks me in the face), is that a bad mindset to have? And if so how do i approach that with women better? It’s neither here nor there, but I would say I’m decently attractive and have a good job and am in a healthy routine. I feel on dating apps everyone is just looking to get taken to nobu and I just don’t really want to do that with someone I just met, and to be frank I feel like I’ll know when I do want to.
I’m focusing on my career at the moment so it seems that hooking up is all I’m really interested in a the moment. Is something wrong with me? Lol if not how do I approach this with women in the wild?