Hi. I F27 became single about four months ago after a long-term relationship. I finally feel ready to date again and recently downloaded Hinge. I’m usually attracted to very few people..sometimes I’ve even wondered if I might be asexual because I rarely like anyone.But about a week ago, I matched with a guy who’s exactly my type. He opened with a funny message, then asked me out – he suggested a bar, a time, and a day. I couldn’t make the original time he suggested, so I asked if we could do it today instead, and he agreed.
We had a date planned for 7pm tonight. Around 3pm he texted me saying he was excited to meet me, but that today wasn’t the right day (it sounds better in my native language). He asked if I’d be available on Sunday or Monday instead.
Personally, I thought his message was really sweet. My friends, on the other hand, think it was rude that he didn’t give me a reason for canceling. I honestly didn’t think too much about it, and I don’t feel like I need an explanation… we barely know each other and things come up.
Now I’m starting to overthink. Are my friends right, or am I?