So I (22F) Starting recently talking to someone new that I am starting to get to know, but so far I think he is a really sweet guy (24M). The other day we were just chatting like usual and he had mentioned that he is very obedient (I did not realize that he meant it sexually until he emphasized that it was) and then explained it by saying that if i tell him to do something he will do it.I know it sounds very cute and dry but I have try to look into different things online to better understand what he is implying or like if this is kink specific, because he really emphasized that he is very obedient. We have not gotten to the sexual stage yet, but when we do, I want to be prepared and I just need to better understand what this means. Please help me out!


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    So I (22F) Starting recently talking to someone new that I am starting to get to know, but so far I think he is a really sweet guy (24M). The other day we were just chatting like usual and he had mentioned that he is very obedient (I did not realize that he meant it sexually until he emphasized that it was) and then explained it by saying that if i tell him to do something he will do it.I know it sounds very cute and dry but I have try to look into different things online to better understand what he is implying or like if this is kink specific, because he really emphasized that he is very obedient. We have not gotten to the sexual stage yet, but when we do, I want to be prepared and I just need to better understand what this means. Please help me out!

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  2. You really, really need to ask him. No one else can knows exactly what he means. Maybe he wants you to be a bit bossy, or maybe he wants to be led around on a collar and leash, or maybe he’s heavily into a particular type of BDSM. It’s a mystery until you ask.

    Also don’t forget to communicate your preferences and needs too. Don’t set this up as a one-way street.

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