I’m 8 months pregnant and have a toddler with my husband, during this pregnancy I noticed my husband has become more into his phone and usually stays on his phone typing or browsing for hours and only takes his eyes off it when I ask a question or when he’s playing with our toddler.
He had also started sleeping so late and not coming to bed until it’s past 5am or something which I found strange but then again I thought maybe he just wants some time to himself because our flat is small and me and our toddler are always around him.
Anyways, one night I just felt somethings off and he’s always being mean to me or making remarks about my appearance and personality so I decided to check his phone. He’s been dming lustful messages to women, complimenting and asking for their numbers and the amount of women were countless like 20 women.
So I confronted him and decided to remain calm for my own health sake because I can give birth at any moment and he literally had no explanation and was apologising to me sayingme to move past it and it won’t happen again.
These women he’s trying to get attention from look nothing like me and have no similarity to me. I do upkeep my looks and fitness as much as I can even while heavily pregnant.
When we are outside together with our toddler he literally stares at women so hard even they give the wtf look back. As humans we all look at what’s attractive but to stare so hard that the other person finds it weird is worrying. Sometimes he even turns his head 360 to look back at a female who just walked by or even turns his car window down to take a proper look while I sit next to him. I’ve told him I see his wandering eye and disrespect and he starts yelling and calling me a weirdo etc.
I don’t think anyone understands the type of pain you feel inside mentally seeing betrayal from your partner. I don’t think he’s as sorry as he says he is. During intimacy he always demands oral sex but I hate it soo much, if he doesn’t get oral he’s as limp as dying flower.
I reckon he doesn’t like me anymore and his wandering eye meant he probably wants to cheat too.