I have been dating my guy for 14 months now. I have tried to explain the need for foreplay. What it means an it takes time. Sucking on nipples and making out. Touching and eating. He does not like eating and I know I am clean and I know I taste good because I enjoy the way I taste. How do I get him to spend time on me make me feel wanted.
How do I explain that 5 minutes sucking a tit or kissing me is not how long it takes. It takes time. He’s 35 I’m 42 …. He feels he’s trying hard and I know he is trying more. He feels I’m just telling him he’s not good enough when I need more time on me. I want to feel wanted and taken and needed. I don’t feel that way and I don’t know how to explain it more. He says he has no guy friends to talk to about sex.
I asked him to research because I’m obviously not explaining it right. I need help!