I was talking to a guy and things were going well. We matched on a matrimonial site! So we both are fairly serious. We haven’t met up yet and he asks me if I’m free to hang out. He suggests meeting at a cafe close to him at 6 pm.
I have to drive 1.5 hours for a cafe? He didn’t even bother to check where I lived and make a plan based on that. It’s our first meeting.
What happened to men coming to where the women are for the first date 😭. I liked this guy but now I lost interest. I told him that I can meet half way but I’m not excited anymore to meet him.
I wish I was a guy so I can show other guys how it’s done.
Also for those of you who think I’m using guys, it’s not that. If he comes to me, I’ll pay for his food and I would suggest a restaurant. If a guy makes an effort for me, I’ll do the same for them. But men have to make the first move.