for context he and i are both 18. i'm not sure if this counts as losing your virginity but he can only fit upto his tip and a little further down. we've tried a few times but it won't go any deeper than that no matter how hard i push. his penis is about 6 inches and it's quite thick, and i'm a lot smaller than him (he's about 200 pounds and i'm 80). i dont fit the symptoms for vaginismus so i dont know what else it could be.