I am a super anxious over thinker and last week my husband and I exchanged our vows. I spent quite a bit of time on mine, trying to fit everything so it wouldn’t be more than a minute and a half. I thought they were great until my husband said his vows. They were amazing, literally blew me away. Meanwhile I felt like mine were very straightforward and not as heartfelt. On top of that, originally our private ceremony became a ceremony with 10+ people. That has me over thinking even more because multiple people witnessed this. Now for the past week I have been thinking of all the things I should have said in my vows, even looking back at old vow drafts I made and thinking to myself that I should have used that. Of course, I’ve been telling my husband all the things I should I have said in my vows, but it’s killing my that no matter what I say it won’t have the same impact it would have at the altar. Basically I just want to feel less alone with these thoughts. Anyone else felt this way about their vows??? How do I get over this lol. Because at this point I think I’m annoying my husband. 😅
TLDR- regret not making my vows more heartfelt and I can’t stop thinking about all the things I should have said and it’s driving me crazy. Anyone else feel the same after their ceremony?