This is not a negative post, this is a positive one and I think we should all share positivity from time to time. Positive thoughts and energy from tough situations which are building blocks of growth in our marriage.
My wife and I are Newly married. 3 months in. Prior to she met me when I was broken. We broke up. I got mental help from therapy and diagnosed with ADHD hyper sexuality and depression.
I fixed those things, learned from it and now my wife sees the difference. She’s got two kids I have three from our past relationship / dating. (Both had partners long term I was married her ex was a shit head who was extremely selfish and couldn’t commit).
When we got back together we put effort work and choice into each other. Intentional moments but I told her I will always be, direct honest and blunt even if it hurts your feelings because i no longer want to lie to you or to myself.
We have fights, we have discussions, she hears me. I hear her.
She withdraws inside because she’s been on her own for a long time and was the main provider, now she’s married to a man who was a sole provider and it’s interesting watching how she’s learning and surrendering to her femininity coming out.
I love her. Endlessly and unconditionally.
What are some of yalls moments where you realize how much you love someone, you love watching them grow? You’re proud of them for it?