This has never happened before and has really gotten to me.
After not seeing anyone for ages (a story for another time) I (44M) recently started seeing someone (36F), and we’ve had really good chemistry so far. She is beautiful. She was an international model and is the centre of attention whenever she comes into the room. We went on a date and she wanted to go back to her place.
I really try to be attentive and not rush anything sexually. I always try to make sure my partners have a great time. But I think she was different. Almost as soon as she was naked she was passive. I did everything and it wasn’t reciprocated. She had (according to her) three orgasms. I thought there were clear signs she was enjoying herself and she seemed very satisfied in the moment.
After a while of lovemaking when I thought she was satisfied I went for mine. After I was done she said I was a selfish lover and that even though she orgasmed three times I didn’t fulfil her or “respect her feminine goddess.” She said she wanted to be worshipped in the bedroom. She kicked me out of her apartment in anger.
Now I’m second-guessing myself. I always had confidence in the bedroom but now I’m kinda shot in that area. I have a few potential dates lined up through various dating apps but kinda scared to pull the trigger.
I have never encountered this before. So am I terrible in bed or is something else going on?