As the title states, it turns out I have a new kink. Well, three of them actually. I'm really really REALLY into knife play, blood play, and CNC. I don't know how to tell my boyfriend without him being weirded out. My boyfriend has a lot of knives, like pocket knives, because he finds them cool. He gets nose bleeds a lot, so I get to see blood all over his hands. These are both incredibly hot to me. Everytime I see the blood on his hands I fantasize that he just k1ll3d or fought someone and is fucking me to release the tension and anger of said thing. It turns me on, a lot. I also fantasize of him tracing my thighs with his knives to scare me into fucking him. I fantasize of him putting one up to my throat and making me do whatever he says. Is this disgusting or weird? Help? How do I tell him that this stuff turns me on like crazy?


4 comments

  1. Hi there /u/Strong-Platform-9732

    To keep nefarious behaviour at bay, we are saving the contents of your post here
    so that it can always be retrieved by the moderator team after a post has been
    edited or deleted by the posting user.

    Post title: I found out I have a new kink and don’t know how to go about it.

    ***

    As the title states, it turns out I have a new kink. Well, three of them actually. I’m really really REALLY into knife play, blood play, and CNC. I don’t know how to tell my boyfriend without him being weirded out. My boyfriend has a lot of knives, like pocket knives, because he finds them cool. He gets nose bleeds a lot, so I get to see blood all over his hands. These are both incredibly hot to me. Everytime I see the blood on his hands I fantasize that he just k1ll3d or fought someone and is fucking me to release the tension and anger of said thing. It turns me on, a lot. I also fantasize of him tracing my thighs with his knives to scare me into fucking him. I fantasize of him putting one up to my throat and making me do whatever he says. Is this disgusting or weird? Help? How do I tell him that this stuff turns me on like crazy?

    ***

    *AutoSaver v1.0*

    *I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please [contact the moderators of this subreddit](/message/compose/?to=/r/sex) if you have any questions or concerns.*

  2. You aren’t fantasizing pain being inflicted on others. I assume since the nosebleeds are regular there is a healthy system in place to properly deal with them so his health issue isn’t becoming a positive part of your day.
    Fantasies are fantasies.
    I always told my previous relationships that if they are into something, and it doesn’t physically affect me, and I don’t like it, I’ll probably do it for their enjoyment.
    So I don’t see why he wouldn’t give it a shot for you, unless the performative nature of it makes him uncomfortable rather than the actual actions.

  3. >Is this disgusting or weird?

    Well, disgust is subjective. Some people would be disgusted by it, others wouldn’t. But there’s nothing inherently disgusting about it.

    Weird basically just means not normal, so yeah, I’d say it’s weird. It doesn’t matter, though. Plenty of things aren’t normal. Being naturally ginger isn’t normal, either.

    >How do I tell him that this stuff turns me on like crazy?

    Do you know his general opinion on kinks, especially violence-based kinks like yours? I would start by trying to figure that out. If he’s chill about it, you can probably just tell him, if he isn’t, maybe try to educate him and change his opinion first.

Leave a Reply