So I'm new…not to talking or trying to date…but I'm honestly and a lost for what the hell I'm supposed to do.
I like and date women, see I am confused as hell when it comes to them.
So I have dating apps, I don't get matched all the time, I think I a good looking guy but looks ain't nothing. But I'll get matched, I read a women's bio, try to decipher how to talk but remember just be myself. Mind you, alot of the women that match with me say they hate dry texters, they want someone that can keep a conversation…etc..
So I match, introduce myself, and we talk for about 5 minutes…and I'm literally saying hey asking how their day is going and some of them just block me at the start…which doesn't bother me…their loss.
Some actually talk for a bit, and letting everyone know I have Autism, Asperger's Syndrome…I don't think it matters but it's very difficult for me to talk to people, and in dating it is worse lol.
Over text and call I can keep a conversation going but I literally get one word answers like "yeah, or Hey,hmm, okay" all that jazz…
So I'm trying to bring uk random topics, of course keeping away from some like religion and politics…I'll talk about jobs, college…hobbies..the usually but they only give one word answers back..so at that point I don't like being the only one asking questions because as a Man, yes…I am a man… something happened on my past with a female and I have mental trauma…and makes my mindset where if a girl hates me or blames me for any reason, says it's my fault…even if I did absolutely nothing wrong…I emotionally hurts me to a point where i think I'm gonna die alone when I'm older
Back to the issue…sorry for info dumping…but I don't want to loose the girls interest in me, nor do I want to stop talking…some girls blocked me because I'm to weird, happy, talk to much..etc…
I'm at a loss because I want to talk with a girl and keep her interested in me, but when they say hate dry texters, and they turned out to be one…then I have to keep the Convo and her interest in me…but she shows nothing in return, but I don't want to bombard the women with text because they also hate that as well
Pretty much, every and any woman I try talking to…I can't keep their interest in me long enough because they don't even wanna talk but when I try keep the Convo going they just block me without hesitation.
What am I doing wrong, an advice?
I promise Im not self pitying…I just need advice and help is all…