I get really tired of asking him to put things away. He has ZERO organization skills and just leaves stuff everywhere for weeks or months at a time. Ihave tried to make homes for everything but he just leaves his stuff where it lays. I get tired of moving stuff to clean under it. I do the same but will pick up every few days. I don't just pick up my stuff but his and both of the kids stuff too. I'm ranting. I'm really tired after 20 years of this incompetence. Idc. I'll just throw it away. I am the asshole. And idc. I told him several times to find homes for his stuff or i would start throwing it away. I throw the kids stuff away too. Never anything of value. Just little cheap stuff like pens, markers, toys, lotion, makeup, creams, socks. It's liberating knowing I won't have to touch it again.