When me and my husband first got together we had sex 3 times a day sometimes twice the past year we have only had sex maybe every 3 weeks I just had our baby in July so I went from like half way of June until august without sex. Hes my first and it was great in the beginning but not now I’m just frustrated . I told him I can deal with it being weekly but 3 weeks to a month is frustrating. I mean he literally flirts with me and tells me he wants to then changes his mind a couple hours later so I give my hopes up for nothing. I can touch him all day and he’s just throw my hand away telling me we’re not fucking .When we do have sex he never touches me or even try’s anything anymore I’m always like you should touch me and he’ll do it for a couple seconds and then stop He’s been like this before we had our baby and we’ve been together for 3 years. I have toys but they’re not the same as the physical touch and feelings.