like, is this even a thing? after he comes he always tell me to help his D soften, like he tells me to jerk slowly, touch his balls, scratch it lightly, trace his veins, touch the head, rub it, suck softly and kiss it. All of that to soften. I don’t know. I’ve never heard of it. It usually takes a lot of time and I don’t see how touching it would help it to go soft.